As I have obviously been reaching for florals in this warm winter / spring preview, I’ve also been shedding the oversized sweaters that I cling to in winter months. One day I was getting dressed and realized that I have created a pretty bad habit of hiding behind lots and lots of oversized tops or sweaters. (My husband makes fun of me all the time. Asks me if I have enough fabric on me to leave the house.) And while I love the oversized look, I had to take a look at what I was doing — do I love the trend or as I shying away from my body? I realized it’s a bit of both, but maybe more of the latter. So I’ve really been trying to embrace my shape lately when getting dressed instead of shying away from it. This body-con dress is — while simple and admittedly safe — feels like a risk for me. I am so not used to showing my shape or really having anything touch me very close so this is a giant leap for me in my comfort zone. It’s funny, what is supposed to be a comfortable dress for most, feels like a risk to me. But turns out after wearing it all day, it’s actually a really comfortable dress. One small step for Kendi, one huge leap for…
Just for me, actually. Sorry mankind.Â
This perfect little satchel is on mega sale right now! I just noticed this morning. Friday mornings and bags on sale. Two of my favorite things.
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You look fantastic! I’ve had my eye on this dress but haven’t pulled the trigger for the same reason. You’ve inspired me to come out of my comfort zone as well!
I love this dress. Simple, yet chic. And really feminine!
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You look stunning! I also shy away from bodycon dresses, but I love the ruched look of this one. It looks comfy but still sexy. Win win!
Girl, you’ve disappeared from my Bloglovin’ feed! I was wondering why you hadn’t posted.
Ugh I know!! We are trying to get Bloglovin to move my feed to the new domain. I’m hoping it’s soon! Should be up by next week 🙂
That dress is insanely flattering, you look gorgeous!!
Jeanne
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I would love to have more casual dresses like this one! I feel like my closet is currently divided into two categories 1. Dressy & 2. Sloppy Bum.
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I love the simplicity of this outfit!
Love, Kathleen
Such a great casual combo!! This dress fits you perfectly! Happy Valentine’s Day!
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I love this look on you! I have always admired you as a blogger because you have a *normal* body. I realize there is no definition of normal, but you at least look like you have eaten something this century. And I appreciate that! You seem to be in really great shape, too! Thank you for being a blogger who has a healthy-looking body (and no Gollum arms)!
You look great in this dress!
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Love this dress!
Love,
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You look great in this dress!!! Perfect transitional dress from winter to spring. Love it!!!
Embrace your body and your curves, Kendi! You are an Amazonian! Please, take that darn jean jacket covering your waist and walk with confidence! You have a FIGURE! You look great! Love the dress! (I know, one step at a time..)
Even though your dress is a body con dress it looks really comfortable! Thats awesome you have decided to change it up just because I have the same habit of being overly conservative.
Paula- http://www.livingpaula.com
I love your new look in your site, just checked it today for the first time. Also your look is amazing and you have great body and there is nothing to be ashamed from.
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I totally understand! That dress is great and fits perfectly!
xo christa | http://www.gardeniasandmint.com
The model and the outfit are perfection.
not that your sunnies aren’t amazing, but I love seeing your eyes! you have such a lovely face, friend.
Your. Legs. They look killer – and this outfit is a live in. I’m obsessed!